he keeps talking about how hot other girls loook =/?
Question by Ashley Mariie*: he keeps talking about how hot other girls loook =/?
and it bothers me! this year was good until he started this stuff. when we go out, he’ll go “oh she has a nice butt” when we talk on the phone he goes “oh i got with this hot girl” and i get upset and he says “i love you, im jokeing.” and i tell him over and over i dont like it! your pushing me to the edgeee. but he keeps it going.
he kissed another girl, 6 months into our relationship. i trusted him and he hurt me so i commented a boys picture saying he was cute. i didnt mean it & now he says he cant trust me. i told the guy off i commented too. i dont know what to do. i try to make things better but nothing changes.
i had to walk out of hollister cause he was saying things about a girl, i started crying and he didnt seem to care. he walk out to see if im still there then walks back in.
i love him =/ but i need help trying to open his eyes. he has a good girl.. how to i show him that?
how do i show him that**
Best answer:
Answer by spam_free_he_he
Sorry
It may be time for you to move on. If he’s spending more of his time looking for the next best thing, there may be some other guy just waiting for you to be single and available.
You sound much more committed to him than he is to you.
The next time he says something like that, state that he should go after her, because he’s clearly not that interested in you………AND WALK AWAY.
It will give you an opportunity to state your feeling again, and have him know your serious.
Tell him if it happens again, the two of you are DONE. No second chances, why should you waste your time and energy on someone who’s not as committed to the relationship?
Luck
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1[southern♥sweetheart]
wrote on 9 July 2010 at 8:55
GET A NEW BOYFRIEND.
forreal..
if he doesn’t care aout the way you feel NOW, he won’t later.
been there, done that.
2Bill
wrote on 9 July 2010 at 9:16
He’s a guy, he’s going to think other girls are hot whether he says so or not. Just like you’re going to think other guys are hot whether you say so or not. Maybe he’s trying to get back at you for commenting that some other boy was cute.
You could start showing him that you trust him and you’re not an insecure little revenge hound who’s going to stab him in the back at the first mistake he makes. Be affectionate with him etc.
3peaceツ
wrote on 9 July 2010 at 9:46
You need to sit down and talk to him about this. Tell him that if he doesn’t change that you will have to break up with him. If he truly cares about you he will stop. If not, he’s not worth your time.
4Sean's Kitteh!
wrote on 9 July 2010 at 10:08
Dump him.
He doesn’t respect you and plays mind games what seems to be 24/7, and he doesn’t like it when someone does it back. You need help if you needed to ask a forum to realise this.
5LizzieLiz ♥
wrote on 9 July 2010 at 10:27
I know you probably don’t want to hear this but you should break up with him. how dare he treat you like that? what he does is very disrespectful and you shouldn’t have to put up with it. You should leave him maybe that will open his eyes!!
6I Fight Penguins
wrote on 9 July 2010 at 11:18
It seems like you are kind of already showing him that you are a loving girlfriend.
His whole “I can’t trust you” because you left a comment on another boys picture is just to cover up his kissing another girl. It is a classic case of keep the attention off him and on you.
You need to tell him straight up to stop with those jokes. They aren’t funny to you, and they aren’t funny in a cute way at all. Some jokes guys do that bother their girlfriends or wives they do because they are funny and they know that it bothers their significant other, but not in a really bad way.
He is bothering you in a bad way. Let him know this sternly. He needs to get it in his head that he needs to stop.
I would probably say break up with him or something and see what happens. It doesn’t really seem like he is there for you at all, and if the break up doesn’t bring him to you then you need to just let him go.
However hard that may be, it would be for the best.
Other fish in the sea…unless you’re in a fish tank then there might only be like 2, but you are in an ocean, whatever just be smart about this and start to use your head not just your emotions.
Hope it all works out.
Take care and God bless.
7All Natural
wrote on 9 July 2010 at 11:43
Wow, this guy is a hypocrite and you need to dump him like a hot potato. He intentionally hurts you’re feelings by bragging about how cute other girls look and then jumps on you for doing the same thing? He sounds incredibly immature and I think you can do better than that honey.
8natalia k
wrote on 9 July 2010 at 11:43
That´s so annoying! I used to go out with a guy that did the same, made me angry and it also made me feel bad, but then I realiced I´m atractive, have a nice body and a good personality, I don´t have to take his (rap.
I think you can´t trust a guy who´s talking to you about other girls, it´s fine if he feels atraction to other women as well, but you shouldn´t take his (crap. That shows he´s not a nice guy, not even a nice person, you are saying he saw you cry for what he did and he didn´t show any emotion? you need to open his eyes? change him? I´d say that if you tell him he´s hurting you, you cry for what he does and he´s still doing those things, the one that needs to open the eyes it´s you.
Don´t be afraid of being single, it´s better than being with a guy that doesn´t apreciate you.