I do like him, but I’m not sure about these signals he sends? Please help me?
Question by Stargirl_04: I do like him, but I’m not sure about these signals he sends? Please help me?
Hey everyone ![]()
So, this question is about one of my best friends. He and I have been very close for over the period of two years now, I’m starting to realize I have feelings for him more then just friendship. I just don’t want to tell him anything because he’s recently broken up with his gf (4 months ago) and he’s still hung up on her. So basiclly the last two days we’ve been hanging out more the usual and I’m wondering if these signals are just his way of being nice or if he actually likes me? He and I hung out on sunday when he came back from a camping trip and he was away with the boys all weekend he told me “Remember wear something skimpy for me” and i laughed and said it was unavoidable because it’s really hot and i’m wearing a tank top and a pair of shorts. I met him at the soccer feild and we spoke a bit about my bad break up (3 months ago) and his.
Then he turned to me and said “Yah life sucks, so you wanna make out?” and i was caught of guard and i eneded up saying “ha, i’ll pass” jokingly because i wasn’t sure if he was serious. Then he started telling me how he just wanted to hook up with someone and i told him i might now someone, then we came up with this deal and i said if i find you someone you find me someone.
So halfway through we went back to my house to swim with a girl named Lisa who i recomened for this hoook up. But we eneded up walking to his house together and he picked me up over his shoulder 3 times that day and then he said “you have a nice butt”
So monday i asked the girl i was thinking about and she has a BF so that was out. So he then told me “Hey do you want to come over my house and swim? you can bring Lisa” (the girl i was talking about) so i told him she couldnt come because she had a gf and he said “that’s fine you can still come” so i went to his house and then we spoke for a bit and then we swam, i didnt learn how to swim so he was joking aorund with me pulling me into the deep end and helping holding me up.
Then when we were done swimming we sat down and ate and this boy who likes me started txt me and my best friend took my phone and started talking to this kid the last message he sent him was “Yeah just remember she’s your friend not your lover” after i was getting ready to leave he pinched my butt and then he said “call me when you get home” because i had to walk. Then today he asked if i wanted to swim again, i couldnt because i had to go to work but does he like me or is he just being a friend?
Sorry for the length!
-Stargirl ![]()
Also, he texts me all the time even when he doesnt have anything to say he’ll just put a
so i’ll respond
lol you mean he likes me?
Best answer:
Answer by orangelilly
yea u do like him
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1~*RuRu*~
wrote on 28 June 2010 at 22:02
to me it seems like your the rebound girl. you are there probably hot and his friend he wants to have sex with you or hook up whatever ppl your age do lol because he keeps being sexual not sweet. so if you want to just be friends with benefits fine go for it but if you have feelings stop. it will ruin your friendship and it will hurt you and dont expect it to evolve into something more girls always do that because it wont and if it was going to it will be without the hooking up. good luck
2Alice
wrote on 28 June 2010 at 22:16
Yeah Im pretty sure he likes you! Ive been around guys who like to rub your belly! ( thanks for the answer!) and guys who pinch your butt! you must be like really hot if hes pinching your but though!