Q&A: My best friend makes another comment.. guy’s advice please?
Question by Jenna: My best friend makes another comment.. guy’s advice please?
My best friend is a guy. I love him very very much. He tells me I’m his best friend and that I loved him. I took him to prom and it was a lot of fun, we took so many pictures and slow-danced and whatnot. Recently, he wrote in my yearbook saying the sweetest things ever. Of course, he sometimes doesn’t answer my texts, but I suppose that’s just a guy thing cuz he doesn’t answer anyone else’s either. Anyway, basically we’re just very close and open with each other but yesterday he said something that made me wonder his intentions. We were at a friend’s pool party and when I walked over to my friend (I was in my swimsuit) there were like 8 people around and he said very loudly and obviously, “Jenna, you look so hot right now.” And no, he did not mean temperature wise.
This was one of my recent questions here on yahoo answers and again, yesterday I was at his house for a little get together he was having and I was on this elliptical machine in his basement and he says “Jenna-” and I turn around and he is STARING at my ass.. that word will probably be starred out so.. he was STARING at my butt and looked at me with this wink in his eye and was like “You having fun exercising?”
But when were alone in his house a few weeks ago he didn’t try anything, just made me watch Good Luck Chuck.. which I didn’t want to watch anyway.. haha
So wtf… what should I be thinking here?
I mean in the first sentence “that he loves me” not “that I loved him” hahaha
Best answer:
Answer by Bear
he wants to have sex with you.
Know better? Leave your own answer in the comments!
1Toby Lane
wrote on 9 September 2010 at 5:51
He really likes you, but is to scared to ask you, thats why he is saying things like ” you look hot” so hopfully you will pull him aside and say something like ”you look hot 2
” and maybe end up kissing. He is just waiting for you to do something to show you like him 2 or not 
2Adam Taylor
wrote on 9 September 2010 at 6:29
this guy is obviously very attracted to you, if you like him, go out with him, be more than friends. you dont seem to be very bothered that he was staring at your butt, which isnt a bad thing, you would have reacted if you didnt like him and didnt want him too. he wants to go further with you, but dont go too far yet, go slowly
3Fabi
wrote on 9 September 2010 at 6:33
He wants you, but if afraid that it will mess up your friendship.
if you want him, get on your knees shirtless, and give him a BJ.
4happyman
wrote on 9 September 2010 at 7:26
Do you want him to ask you out as a girlfriend/boyfriend situ? Sounds like you do. I am not sure if he is just complimenting you, as you are good friends. But hey he may have strong romantic feelings for you and that could be the case. So just ask him if he wants to be romantically involved
because you would rather like to be his girlfriend. Just say if he does not that you still want him as a friend. Then you will just find romance elsewhere. Good luck.